getting over someone : necessary steps
other than deleting him from your phonebook,etc.
(reference THIS post for tips with that!)
Find a guy friend (in my case, if you’re guy it might be a girl friend, or another guy friend - etc, you get the idea.) who’s willing to
really listen and give you some sound advice. Sometimes you just need the validation that you’re not blindsighted by your emotions and that the person really is a waste of time. And guess what? You have the added bonus of them giving you advice from their past experiences,etc. and with that comes a huge sense of comfort and confidence that you can move on. I’ve been having a hard time letting go of someone and one of my friends’ kinda/sorta boyfriends helped me through the whole ordeal - what a kind guy! Appreciated it and then some. I’ll be posting some tips that he gave me that I’m finding are the exact cure to never contacting a pain in the neck again or wondering “what if”. In fact, Sarah and I are going to try and get him to become a member of the dating standards team! What do you think,folks? I think it’d be great to have a male voice on here to balance things out a little bit. Also,don’t forget we’ve enabled the submit feature now - we’d love to hear some of your standards! C’mon, we all have ‘em. Dish!bang.Love,
Elle
fixed.
